The bride must understand that men also go through emotional stress when it comes to the groom’s or wedding photo session. This is why it is important for the girlfriend to help relieve that stress. Although on the outside we want to project the image of an alpha male man, the pure and sincere reality is that on the inside we may be devouring ourselves in auras that everything really turns out well for both of us. , not so much for ourselves but because we know that you as a bride also have many details to take care of to look good and turn out well and that stress in one way or another is transferred to us.
Learn how to prepare your boyfriend mentally and emotionally for the photo shoot
In a photo session, whatever it is and how it is, you must be prepared. Not only stay in relative “shape” physically, but also emotionally. Being able to be happy, motivated and energetic.
Do you feel like your boyfriend is stressed about his upcoming wedding photo shoot? Not sure if your fiancé will actually enjoy it or really want to participate? Would you like to know how to prepare your boyfriend mentally and emotionally for the photo shoot? Don’t worry, in this post I am going to share with you a series of tips that everyone should know before any photo session.
Below I will show you how to prepare your boyfriend mentally and emotionally for the photo shoot with a series of tips:
- Make it really worth it. Motivate him in the best way possible. If there is something he wants you to do that you haven’t done, now is the time to play that card. For example, if you don’t like watching football and he’s been asking you to go to a game with him, bribe him with that (or whatever works for your man).
- In the time before the session, explain what will happen that day. You’ve probably never done anything like this before and don’t know what to expect. You’re not on Pinterest all the time looking for cute engagement photos or anything, so you may not know anything about this type of session, or even understand what it’s for. Tell him that the photographer will probably have you holding hands, hugging, cuddling, and kissing. You want to explain the previous session to him so that he doesn’t feel scared and uncomfortable while it is happening. Let him know that it will be okay because you will be there all the time and everything will be fine.
- He may have a drink during his session to help him relax. (Not to get drunk, but to ease his nerves).
- Be more affectionate with him before the session. Picture day is very stressful, so it’s easy to get into a fight beforehand. Make sure you are more loving and patient during this stressful time. This will improve the photos because you are not upset with each other over something that happened that morning due to stress. You will be able to relax and be more affectionate during the session.
- Explain the importance of photos. Let him know: “I know this is stressful and you don’t want to do it, but I want tomorrow to be about us. In 50 years I want to look back on these photos. These are important.” This way, you don’t think it’s something that’s on your checklist that you have to do before the wedding, but rather that they are important to you. He loves you; he will do it for you.
- Incorporate your ideas into the session. Ask him if he has any ideas for the session. If he has something he wants to do, then he will be more excited about it because he will feel involved and like that it is about him too, not just about you. Think about what makes you unique as a couple and incorporate those ideas into the session, whether it’s a venue, accessories, clothing, etc.
- Make sure he rests properly: Of course, in the photo session, your boyfriend as well as yourself must come out resplendent. So, it is convenient that 48 hours before the photo session, your boyfriend can get enough rest. With this he will not only have more energy for possible hours posing, but he will be without dark circles under his eyes.
- Practice to calm your nerves: Yes! It seems a little strange that practicing before the photo shoot is inaccurate. However, you can help the groom emotionally by calming his nerves and having the poses with which he feels most comfortable. Likewise, he will be able to function without problems, finding the best angle and carrying out the process more calmly.
- Arrive 20 to 15 minutes early (If possible): It is possible that arriving 20 minutes is exaggerated, even 15 minutes. However, it is advisable for the groom to become psyched up and familiar with the place. Not only will he be able to take the environment as his setting, he will also relax more quickly, especially if he has his companion.
- No empty stomach!: Have you ever thought about going to the wedding photo session without eating? Big mistake!. Being hungry causes a bad mood and that can affect the photo session. Keep in mind that posing for a big event can generate a lot of anxiety and is also something that takes time. The ideal is to eat something before starting the session and also during it if it lasts longer.
Choose light foods that will not cause heaviness or upset stomach.
- Take breaths: If you are not yet mentally and emotionally ready, it doesn’t hurt to do short breathing exercises. Relaxation will be immediate and you will be able to concentrate much more; At the same time, you will be able to express yourself better and get the photos you want.
